Children who have been abused are sometimes called silent victims. They may not come forward to tell you what has happened, but changes in their behavior might show you that something is wrong. Child Abuse Prevention Month is a good time to review those warning signs.
A child who has been sexually abused may experience:
- Discomfort in the genital area
- Torn or bloody underwear
- Regression in toileting behaviors
- Nightmares
- Sudden drop in school performance
- Fear of a person or of being left alone with someone
- Unusual interest in or knowledge of sexual matters inappropriate for a child of that age
- Running away
If a child tells you about an abusive situation, tell them:
- You believe them. (Children rarely lie about abuse.)
- They did the right thing.
- They should not feel bad about telling you.
- You’re glad they talked to you.
- You are sorry it happened.
What should I do if I think my child or another child has been abused?
You should call the Child Abuse Hotline: 1-800-362-2178
Who is the typical child abuser?
Children usually are not abused by strangers. More commonly, children know and trust the people who abuse them. Abusers may be family members, friends of the family, or babysitters. They can be rich, poor or middle-class, male or female, young or old. They can be of any race or religion and can work in any profession.
How do I protect my child from being abused?
Talk to your child about body safety. Explain that his or her body belongs only to him or her. Children need to know that it is their right to say "no" to anyone who tries to touch them.
